This is crazy because my husband and I just had an interesting conversation about this a couple of days ago after I watched this reel about how men rarely "grow to love" someone and that their hearts just know when they have met the one for them. It would have to click from the start. My husband agreed. He always used to say that he just knew he wanted to marry me after the second date. It's interesting how this works. But I firmly believe that if a man does not feel love for a woman, he'd better leave and not string her along because that's just cruel and immoral. This was such a powerful and raw poem, dear Bella. I love the confessional tone and the word choice. Thank you for sharing. ❤❤❤